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What Every Woman Should Know About Menstruation,Ovulation & Epilepsy

WHAT EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW

EPILEPSY 

 

The Most Important Secrets

You Must Learn

In Order to Live a Happy, Healthy and Productive Life with Epilepsy

 

 

 

What Every Woman Should Know About Menstruation, Ovulation & Epilepsy

 

  “Learn how menstruation and ovulation can affect your epilepsy disorder and find out what you can do about it.”

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EPILEPSY, MENSTRUATION, & OVULATION

 

It all about the attitude:  At the age of five, my parents heard a funny noise from the other room, they went to check to make sure everything was all right just as any parent would do and found me in a grand mal seizure.  My lips were turning blue, my eyes rolled back and my entire body was shaking.  Stunned, full of fright and devastation they rushed to call emergency (911) and had me rushed to the nearest hospital for medical attention.  I was diagnosed with (encephalitis) a virus that had traveled to my brain causing me to go into a coma for four days.  However, the doctors did not give up hope, but their prognosis was not positive either.  They thought that when I did come out of the coma that I was probably going to have some degree of brain damage and there was a very good chance that I was going to be paraplegic.

My parents did not give up.  They sat by my bedside with hope in their heart and prayed knowing in their hearts that everything happens for a reason and that there was reason for me being on this earth.  On the fourth day, my father was praying by my bedside,  as he looked up he was stunned to find my eyes wide open and the first thing out of my mouth was “Can I have McDonalds fries?”    

 

The doctors were flabbergasted.  I had no brain damage, I was not paraplegic either, but when the virus (encephalitis) had traveled through my brain, it had caused scar tissue damage, which left me with epilepsy.  A disorder, which I live with every day of my life.

My seizures came occasionally as a child until my hormones started to change.  At this point, I had walked into a part of my life that I was not ready for emotionally.  When the body is making more estrogen than progesterone, it can make the nervous system “excitable.” In other words, you could be at greater risk for seizures. The hormones are not actually causing the seizures, but they can influence when seizures happen. 

I began to menstruate at the age of thirteen.  My periods were irregular and my seizures were occurring frequently.  It was hard to pinpoint when the seizures where going to come because my periods were occurring erratically on a 28-38 days cycle.  Even after my cycle became regular I was still having seizures, but now I had an idea when I was most susceptible to having a seizure.

I also had seizures or an increase of seizures during ovulation.  I learned from my doctor that the reason for increased seizures around the time of ovulation and premenstrual phase is thought to be primarily an increase in the ratio of estrogen (which causes seizures) to
progesterone (which prevents seizures). 

I was determined to improve my condition so I decided from this point on I was going to change my lifestyle and do everything possible to improve my condition.  I learned over the years that doctors can help you, but it is really up to the patient.  If we do not help ourselves and incorporate the advice/instructions from our doctors than we cannot expect miracles to happen.    Our doctors can only do so much, but honestly the ball is in the patients court and what we decide to do in up to us.  So be smart. 

Below are 10 simple tips that worked well for me over the years.

 

Keeping a Journal

 

  1. Seizure Tracking: Each month I keep track (seizure tracking) of when my seizures occur.  This gives me a good idea when the majority of my seizures are occurring.  For example, did most of my seizures occur during menstruation?  Did they happen around ovulation?  To help you with your seizure tracking I would suggest going to epilepsy.com. Epilepsy.com is an excellent web site that provides an outstanding seizure diary program.  You can find their seizure diary program at epilepsy.com/seizurediary.

 

  1. Time of Seizures:  When keeping track of your seizures it is a good idea to write down when your seizures are occurring.  Are they occurring morning, noon or night? 

 

  1. Types of Seizures: When keeping track of your seizures it is a good idea to write down what types of seizures you are having when you experience a seizure.  Are your seizures focal, partial, grand-mal etc…?  Does your body swing to a certain side?  All this things can help give your doctor a better idea where the seizures are coming from.

 

  1. Ask Yourself Questions:  I would ask myself questions and answers in my journal.  When and where are the majority of my seizures occurring and was I doing anything different during those times?

 

  1. Wall Calendar:   I spend a lot of time by my desk so I hung a wall calendar next to me on the wall.  This is where I keep track of my menstruation and ovulation.  I menstruate usually around 28 days so I would highlight the 28th day and circle 4 days before and for days after that day.  I also would do the same for my ovulation.  Two weeks from the first day I menstruated, I would mark on the calendar and circle 4 days before and 4 days after that day.  For those two weeks, I was prescribed water pills from my doctor to help reduce the water retention in my body.  Remember, during these two weeks you should be careful where you go and what you do because your chances of having a seizure can increase.  

 

  1. Diet:   Diet is an important part of my life.  I weigh myself regularly and when I see my weight has gone up 7 or 8 pounds within a few days then I know that I need to make sure I am taking my water pills, increasing my water intake to flush out the toxins in my body and reduce my sodium intake.  I am a firm believer in the concept of you are what you eat.  For example, I like cream of mushroom soup.  One day I was in the mood for the soup, so I made it.  Afterwards a couple of hours later I realized that I looked very bloated, so just out of curiosity I look at the back of the can to my amazement the soup had 960mg of sodium.  That is a lot of sodium to accumulate especially if you have epilepsy.  Since I have been taking better care of myself (watching what I eat, exercising) I have lost weight.  My seizures have decreased by 99.9 percent.  I say this with tears in my eyes because it was not always like this.  Do I still fear that I can have a seizure at anytime?  Of course, just because I am not having them does not mean I cannot have them.  I know if I do not take my medicine, eat well, get enough of sleep etc… then I am setting myself up to have one.  So I make sure I stay within my limitations.  Caring for myself is a top priority because if I do not care for myself than I cannot care for my family.

 

  1. Do Not Forget to Take Your Medication:  Most important do not forget or skip your medications! Taking your medication on time is very important, especially during menstruation and ovulation.

 

  1. Stress:  Stress can bring on seizures, especially during this time of the month when women tend to be more sensitive and emotional.  Therefore, what I do is take it day by day and live each day as if it was my last.  For example, if you knew today was your last day would you let many minor things upset you or would you say, “It’s not worth it.  Say to yourself, I’m not going to let this upset me.”  Focus on now; do not focus on the past because we cannot change the past.  Enjoy the moment and focus on the present.      

 

  1. Take “ME” Time:  Take some time to relax – take a bubble bath, mediate or read a book.  A little quality time helps you wind down, focus clearly and its helps you mentally and physically and emotionally.  You would be surprised how many things can affect epilepsy, so take some time to recharge.  

 

  1. It Is All In the Attitude:  The power of positive thinking goes long way.  Look at life from a positive point of view.  Negative thinking and pity leads to depression and keeps you stagnant in life.  You end hurting herself no one else.  Yes, you have epilepsy but how has this disorder changed you for the better.  Have you become stronger as a person?  Would you be as caring to others with conditions and disabilities?  Has it helped you to see the world from a different light?  Would you have walked down the same path of life if you did not have epilepsy?  Honestly, I think my disorder has made me into a better person because I would not have done many things the way I have and I would not have had the same views on life as I do now.  

 

I may not be able to become a Navy Seal and jump out of an airplane, but epilepsy is not going to stop me from reaching for the stars.  As long as I am living I am going to do everything I can to accomplish my goals in life and turn my hopes and dreams into a reality.  The past 20 years I have learned to help myself and as an advocate, I will do everything I can to help others who suffer from epilepsy.    

Byline by Dr. Orrin Devinsky, M.D.:    When seizures occur exclusively or predominantly around the time of menses or ovulation, which they do for many women, several therapeutic opportunities arise.  It is especially important to maintain good sleep and avoid alcohol (certainly less than two beverages per day) during those times.  For some women, a temporary increase in medication can be helpful if then menstrual cycle is regular.   The use of hormonal agents remains challenging, and no strategy has been shown to be clearly effective and safe.  For women with catamenial epilepsy (that is, around the time of menses or ovulation), even removal of the ovaries and womb does not stop seizures.  So effective antiepileptic drugs and a healthy lifestyle remain our best approach to help control seizures.  – Dr. Orrin Devinsky, M.D.

 

 

Ten Steps to Self-Confidence

“Self-confidence is like being rich – it is something we think everyone else is but us. Yet feeling insecure about ourselves is perhaps the most common problem we face.” Self-confidence-like being rich – it is something we think everyone else is but us. Yet feeling insecure about ourselves is perhaps the most common problems of humanity. The majority of people in society think, “You have to be born with it.” This is not true. You can learn how to be confident, just like learning how to cook or drive a car.
Self-confidence all boils down to how we feel about ourselves. Our self-confidence begins to develop from the moment we are born. Many components affect the development of our self-esteem, for example – how we are raised, how people talk to us and things we experience during our lifetime. Many of us tend to judge how well we our doing in life by what society thinks it is right or what the people who center our life think.
We all have standards and expectations that we all tend to try to live up too. If we do not meet up to our standards, which most of us do not, our self-confidence begins to slowly decline. Many of us try to have unrealistic standards that we try to live up too and we tend to lose sight of the fact that we cannot be perfect.
We need to accept ourselves, love ourselves and be happy with who we are as people. We were valued for just being people, for just being in this world. We often believe we must continually try to prove to other people that we are worthy of them or on the same level as them. We often spend too much time doing that and we lose sight of the fact that we are fine just the way we are and that the only person that needs to be happy with them is themselves even though we are not perfect people.
In order to gain self-confidence you need to believe in yourself. If you believe in yourself then you can succeed in anything you put your mind to. You may not succeed the first time you try, but you have to keep trying until you do succeed. Quick success does not exist in our society. Achievements only come to those who strive hard to get them. You get nowhere in life if you do not push yourself. You need to create a lifestyle that is right for you and nobody else. Do not settle for anyone else’s lifestyle or for a lifestyle that is beneath your standards.
My “10 step plan” to increasing confidence:
1. Begin a journal. Ask yourself what is making you feel like you cannot get to the point in life you want to reach. Write any thoughts that come to mine. Also, write down what self-confidence means to you.
2. Remember the past is over; you can only change the future.
3. Accept yourself and learn to love yourself for whom you are a person.Everyone has his or her own unique qualities and characteristics. We are all born differently for a reason. Do not compare yourself to others.
4. Understand yourself mentally, physically and spiritually.
Take some time to relax by yourself in a quiet room…
Rest on your back with head and neck comfortably supported.
Rest hands on upper abdomen, close your eyes and settle in a comfortable position.
Breathe slowly, deeply and rhythmically.
Inhalation should be slow, unforced and unhurried.
Silently count to four, five or six, whatever feels right for you.
When inhalation is complete, slowly inhale through the nose. Count this breathing out, as when breathing in.
The exhalation should take as long as the inhalation. There should be no sense of strain. If initially, you feel you have breathed your fullest at a count of three, which is all right.
Try gradually to slow down the rhythm until a slow count of five or six is possible, with a pause of two or three between in and out breathing.
5. Be ready. Self-confidence comes a lot easier to the person who is sure their ready.
6. Strengthen your inner self. Write down in your journal what you will be able to do once you acquire the confidence you need.
7. Begin changing what you do not like about yourself. Confidence comes from within. You need to concentrate on the positive things about yourself.
8. Notice the change in our self-esteem and self-confidence. Reward yourself each time you do something that makes you feel proud…go out some place or take it easy for the day.
9. Learn how to give and take. Confidence is being able to find a balance between giving help to people and excepting when we need help.
10. Have a tremendous amount of pride in yourself. Remember, you are number one!
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Write down 10 positive things about yourself. Go through your journal and look at all the positive things about yourself. Concentrate on your strengths. These are the reasons you should love yourself and have high self-esteem and self-confidence in yourself. Give yourself credit for everything positive you have written about yourself. Remember, you are somebody special.
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My Determination to Succeed – The truths and triumphs of living with epilepsy

DISABILITIES

 

The Most Important Skills

You Must Learn

In Order to Succeed In Life with a disability

 

(Part 1)

 

My Determination to Succeed – The truths and triumphs of living with epilepsy

 

 

Disabilities, disorders, illnesses or diseases should not stop you from living a happy, healthy and productive life. People with disabilities can work, care for children, go out with friends, play sports, and have meaningful relationships, just like anyone else. Continue reading

Epilepsy & Fitness

Did you know…?

 

Epilepsy affects millions of people worldwide.  Statistics show that one out of ten people will have at least one seizure in his or her life. Four out of 100 will ultimately develop full-blown epilepsy. According to the Epilepsy Foundation of America the causes of 70% of all cases of epilepsy are unknown.

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THE EMOTIONAL SCAR OF EPILEPSY – How Others Feel to Have the Disorder

What happens when we have a seizure? We lose control of our bodies. This is what happens to someone every time a person has a seizure. Such a person has no way to stop the seizures, is unable to stand up, to speak or once the seizure is over, to remember what happened. Imagine trying to get through life having to live with the constant fear of when and where your next seizure will occur. Continue reading

The History Of Epilepsy

Epilepsy has been on this planet as far back as time will take us. According to the Epilepsy Foundation of America, some of history’s finest may have had epilepsy: people like Alexander the Great (356-323 B.C.), Alfred the Great, West Saxon king and scholar (849-899), Hector Berlioz, French composer (1803-1869), Julius Caesar (100—44 B.C.), St. Paul the apostle, Socrates the Greek philosopher and mathematician, and Vincent Van Gogh the Dutch painter. Anyone can have epilepsy.

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